RANDOM RANT!!

What do we want in an spouse? Its always the same thing!!! Someone please come up with a list which is a little different? I know you are looking for a friend in your future spouse, I know you want someone that understand you, I know you want someone you can travel with after you marry, I know you want someone you can grow old with...yawn yawn yawn!!! OMG please send someone who hasn't fallen for the hollywodd / bollywood dream! I want someone who is the complete opposite and who will challenge me, not agree with me all the time. Someone who I will fight with passionately (not physical obviously!), but also make up just as quickly with! Its not difficult to find someone is it?? We see different people all the time when we go out, shop, gym, etc etc Why then is it so damn difficult to meet a person, ascertain if you're compatible, and go to your masjid and say 'kabul'? Right??? Whose with me??